# Taking The Leap

- Link: https://brianejohns.com/2018/06/02/blog-taking-the-leap/
- Published: 2018-06-02T21:25:00-04:00
- Author: Brian Johns

## Recently, I came across this video on Facebook, and it stood out to me. Take 10 minutes of your time and watch the whole thing.  Some saw it as a metaphor for death regarding confronting the fear of the unknown. Some saw it in more prosaic terms. “It’s nothing more than facing your fears and taking the leap.” I think that it’s an excellent portrayal of humans in doubt when faced with a difficult situation.

I don’t see anything wrong with someone getting to that platform and deciding not
to follow through. Different folks will assess their risks differently. One who 
chooses not to leap in this situation may do well in other cases.

Different folks may have different reasons for not taking the leap. For some, the
fear of being injured is a factor. “Looking like a fool” is a powerful fear as well.
A generalized “fear of the unknown” prevents some from “taking the leap.”

In short, many psychological factors prevent folks from taking a gamble and changing
their lives.

If you are not able to view this video, click [here](https://www.nytimes.com/2017/01/30/opinion/ten-meter-tower.html?searchResultPosition=2).

However, I saw this video from a different vantage point.

As a martial arts instructor, I have encountered many who have inquired into my 
classes over the past few years. A few came in and watched. Still, others tried 
one free class.

## Many professed excitement about joining up. “This looks so cool! I’m going to join!”

Then, they never come back or are kidnapped by aliens. 

To be sure, several factors might come into play. Life in a traffic-congested area
like Toronto can make attending classes challenging. For others, the daily commutes
to downtown Toronto or other parts of the Greater Toronto Area are often long and
exhausting. Driving within the Durham Region (where my wife and I live) can sometimes
be a pain. As a result, many don’t have the energy to attend class.

For all that, I sometimes wonder if there is a fear of the unknown for some prospective
students. I would not doubt that some may have concerns about working with sticks
and knives. A general fear of playing with weapons could be an issue.

It could be that the fear of “looking like a fool” in front of others prevents some
from taking the leap.

## What does it take to convince folks to “leap” into my class?

Talking with prospective students can uncover their concerns. The following are 
the most common concerns I have encountered over the years.

 * Fear of practicing with weapons? Point out to them that, in Filipino Martial 
   Arts, there are empty hand translations for weapons movements.
 * Fear of injury: As an instructor, I always emphasize safety and consideration
   of others. Due to this emphasis, none of my students have suffered serious injuries
   other than normal bruises.
 * Cost: I offer various packages to address their concerns about the cost of martial
   arts. Occasionally, I will ask, “What is your life worth?” 
 * Not knowing anybody: Often, this issue is addressed after they have tried a free
   class. My students are friendly, open, and helpful. Encouraging them to bring
   a friend to join can help as well.
 * Lack of martial arts experience: Modern Arnis is easy to learn. Showing them 
   is key. Trying single sinawali is an excellent hook. There is nothing simpler
   than single sinawali. Depending on the prospective student, I will introduce 
   them to either the empty-hand version or go straight to sticks.
 * [Judging themselves](https://brianejohns.com//2020/02/10/blog-the-comparison-game/):
   often this does not rear its ugly head until after one has joined the class. 
   I’ve had two students who quit over this issue. They berated themselves so mercilessly
   that they left. Fortunately, I have addressed this issue with others by reminding
   them to focus on “progression instead of perfection.” I’ve learned to spot this
   issue early on. Better to nip it in the bud early. Unfortunately, it’s difficult
   to spot this when a prospective student is considering joining.

Like the New York Times video, some can’t bring themselves to “take the leap.” I’ve
learned to accept this. On the other hand, some have joined the class and are enjoying
them!

## Over to you. What issues have you seen preventing some from taking the leap? Let’s hear from you!

## Additional Reading

 * [Book Review: Warrior Arts of the Philippines by Reynaldo Galang](https://brianejohns.com/2008/04/07/blog-book-review-warrior-arts-of-the-philippines-by-reynaldo-galang/)
 * [Simplicity](https://brianejohns.com/2015/09/28/blog-simplicity/)
 * [Amazing Palis Palis Drill!](https://brianejohns.com/2021/02/15/blog-amazing-palis-palis-drill/)
 * [Making the Connections](https://brianejohns.com/2022/06/29/blog-making-the-connections/)
 * [Going Back To The Gym](https://brianejohns.com/2023/06/07/blog-going-back-to-the-gym/)

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